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FROM A PARENT’S PERSPECTIVE


Welcome to the third issue of the “new look” Educator. The last issue was a special pre-conference edition and I am delighted to tell you that the ICEVI 50th Anniversary World Conference was, especially for us parents, a great success - with many presentations and workshops by parents. We also put some resolutions up and they have been voted through unanimously. The resolutions are included in this edition and I would like to draw your particular attention to Resolution 15 - Early Childhood Intervention and Parent Partnership and to Resolution 18 - ICEVI Organisation.

The theme for this issue is “Early Childhood Intervention” (ECI). The importance of ECI is that the earlier a child’s needs are addressed the better. Improved communications and understanding between parents and professionals mean that the needs of the child will be identified more readily. Here are some contributions on the subject from a number of different ICEVI regions. A big thank you to Marilda (Brazil), Guila (Israel) and Wendy (UK) who took the time to write for us. Your contributions are greatly appreciated.

- Tula A Baxter, Editor, Parents’ Column

Hon. Chairman T.E.A.M. Europe - Email: tulaabaxter@hotmail.com

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LOOKING BEYOND THE LIMITATIONS

Marilda Moares Garcia Bruno (Sao Paolo - Brazil) - Mother and Special Education Specialist

When families eagerly await the arrival of the baby they so much want, they make plans, dream and idealize a particular child.  When the child is born different from how it was imagined, when it has a visual impairment or even multiple disabilities, we parents feel frustrated and lost.  We become disorganized and need support and help.  We embark on pilgrimages to doctors and specialists in the hope of a cure, a miracle.  When we are referred to an early intervention program we experience many doubts, anxiety and fears which are often not expressed explicitly.

In general, only the limitations and difficulties of our children are evaluated, which further increases our anguish since the focus is put on the disability and not on what the child can do.  The potentials are rarely shown: how we can communicate, interact, play, build ties, cope with our difficulties and succeed in being happy together.

Early intervention programs are organized from the perspective of professionals and organizations, emphasizing stimulation techniques and developing skills, often to the detriment of relationships and interactions, of the creation of the self, of an identity, of the different forms of communication and of the inclusion of the child in its own family and community.

As we march on this path, we need to feel that we are welcome and that our anxiety, desires and
expectations are being heard.  We need support and help so that we can feel competent and capable of participating in the development and learning process of our children and of deciding their future with them.  We need to meet other parents with whom we can identify and work together for the rights of all children, thereby participating in the construction of an inclusive society.

EARLY INTERVENTION, THE ISRAELI WAY

Guila Seidel, President - “Ofek Liyladenu” (Israel National Association of Parents of
Visually Impaired Children)

We see Early Intervention as a wide range of activities in many fields: we provide the parents with information about medical and legal matters, rights and services.  We also offer support by linking parents with other parents whose visually impaired child has the same problem and /or is the same age, or lives close by.

We also initiate support groups and meetings at which the parents are introduced to other parents, either at our annual conference - or at special events, such as summer recreation for families. Such an event occurred two weeks ago and illustrates the energy a family can gain from the healing power of the parents’ group.

The parents of 4 year old Karen, who recently lost her remaining vision after medical intervention, were exhausted after spending almost 4 months with her abroad. Needless to say, their family life was disrupted (the two elder children remained in Israel). When they returned, we just happened to be holding the families’ summer recreation week and invited them to join us. Some of the activities allowed parents to be away from their child - and relax as a group of volunteers took over. It was the first time in months that Karen’s brothers could benefit from their parents’ complete attention. Karen’s parents also told us that meeting parents of older children and watching older children enjoying themselves and acting normally had a tremendous impact on them and provided great comfort. For Karen’s parents it was a turning point in accepting their child’s blindness.

After 5 days Karen’s parents headed home with better ideas, encouraged and optimistic. We, the “senior” parents in the association, realised with pride that we had achieved an important goal.

EARLY INTERVENTION – A PARENT’S PERSPECTIVE

Wendy Sainsbury - parent of a VI child and National Family Support Officer of LOOK UK

Ideally all parents with visually impaired children should be able to access equal levels and timely support in regard to early intervention. Sadly this is not always the case and the experience of parents differs widely.

There are many reasons for this:-

1)    Poor co-ordination of intervention (at the point of diagnosis) between hospitals, statutory and voluntary services, leading to parents eventually venting anger, bitterness and frustration, particularly when accessing the education system.

2)    Lack of parental information as regards Special Education Needs.

3)    Parents’ inability (due to emotions/not coping with the situation) to ascertain their rights.

4)    Local Education Authority (“LEA”) lack of resources.

5)    Differing criteria for engagement with families and children as applied in some LEA’s.

6)    Inclination of teachers to support the LEA rather than the parent and child during the early stages or when issues of conflict arise.

7)    Lack of expertise and experience in dealing with a child with multiple disabilities and a visual impairment.

In some cases, after intervention successfully takes place and the young person enters the system, there can be an easy seamless transition. Often, however, where there is no support from an independent organisation (such as LOOK, the National Federation for Families with Visually Impaired Children) or other empathetic professionals, intervention can be fraught with problems.


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